Is it wrong to feel like this?
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-end but today has been a crying day. He’s going to take her overnight which is more than fine. I don’t want to keep our baby from him when he’s fully capable and wonderful being a father. He just doesn’t have his priorities right when it comes to me. Sadly I fully see a future where he even cuts our daughter off but at the end of the day she deserves to see her parents happy and healthy even if it isn’t together. I refuse to give her a childhood she will need to heal from. I refuse to teach her that someday her husband will make her cry, make her feel alone, belittle and gaslight her. I refuse to teach her that the love he gave me is standard. I refuse to teach her that the bare minimum is okay.
You are not in the wrong whatsoever for knowing what you deserve and being treated like crap definitely isn’t it. I’m proud of you for recognizing it’s not okay and for knowing you deserve more.
I’m literally in the same position as u girl ,3 years w my baby dad but mentally I was so sad and tired w his bs and him not doing his part of being a dad and panther and I mentally was done w him and just recently I ended things but actually seeing him be w other girl is so weird and like unreal just a lil sad to see it in reality bur I’ve always wanted him to be happy even if it’s w someone else
I did most of my crying and detaching whilst still in the relationship, it wasn't on purpose. I was getting my ducks in a row. Getting bank accounts set up in my own name, making sure i had somewhere to go immediately if the conversation went bad, had police predialled into my phone just incase he started heating up always as i was worried i would get caught out planning, told him i was taking the kids away for a weekend and moved into our new place It's sounds cold, but it's all about being safe
Not weird at all mama. I’m going through a very similar situation. Been at my mom’s for over a week now. We have a nearly 3 month old and it breaks my heart knowing our family isn’t what it should have been but he changed. Complete 180 out of nowhere. There was no love left, I was being treated like he didn’t want me around at all. He pulled away and inevitably pushed me away. I noticed it half way through the pregnancy and started trying to discuss the issues but was met with a wall time and time again. I left for a week eight weeks before our due date where he himself admitted he was neglecting me and that he himself knew he needed to fix things fast. Well that never happened. Empty promises, change for a day or two then backwards again. Crying and sobbing to the man I loved, the father of my child, the man I wanted to marry a year ago and definitely can’t imagine doing so now, and him proving time and time again he doesn’t care. I didn’t cry for a while after crying for days on-