Paternal depression

Book appointment with GP

Some men get that because they are good in their nature and can't helps much so they dont know whats the goal now? What are we doing? Why are we doing this? What will happen? Is this forever? Both of you can help each others in this put gaols so you would feel accomplished when you are done with it remember that each phase ends with kids its not for ever and every minute the baby gets older stuff changes Be direct with him with what you need dont wait for him to guess. Find why did you have this kid and what do you want from this experience, i dont know your background for us we get babies part of making this earth better we teach them the best we can so they would accomplish that goal and for the huge reward for rising a child in islam that what eases the hard nights and the expenses for us as allah is the one will reward us not our other half nor community nor this kid and patience has a huge role too as its one of heavens doors so the more you are patient with the kid the more reward you get and so on

@Monika Raut I will be Monday but it currently weekend x

Hey mama, reassure him that it’s very normal to have some paternal depression (despite the fact no-one talks about it!!), it’s a HUGE upheaval in your life having a baby, particularly the first 6 weeks. It does get easier, promise! I would book him in to see a GP, they can offer him antidepressants which he could trial to see if they have an impact (I swear by mine) - best thing you can do is be supportive and loving and help get him the care he needs xxxxxx

@Rosie I'm booking him in Monday , I'll always support and help him I just don't think there's much else I can physically do 😞 I'm going to call Monday xx