Question

Your adopted mom is your actual, legal mom. Just because she didn’t birth you doesn’t make her any less your mom.

@Amie she is super violent to me beat me from age 2 and a half years old up until I was 22 years old so I'm thinking about getting a restraining order

Yes they can tell her whatever they want to tell her. If your CPS is still ongoing tho and you haven’t been terminated than you can fight for them not to go with her or see her. I’ve been through all this before because I’m in recovery. Make sure you do every single thing they tell you to do. Don’t be combative. Get a lawyer.

And yea try to get whatever proof together of the abuse if you’re going to fight that she doesn’t see the children. But if you no longer see her like she doesn’t try to contact you or harm you and it’s been years since the abuse the odds of them granting you a restraining order is pretty slim so just do what you can.

A little late for the restraining order, I would still try but it’s something that should have already been done. I would put the energy into getting my children back I also would make sure the kids are still able to stay with the husband’s brother or whatever is going on over there.

I advise you to do what they are asking of you asap and use all the help you can get from them. Stay focused main goal is getting the kids back asap. If she’s that abusive mention it to ACS I guess? Good luck to you. Also why were they removed from the home in the beginning? I heard you don’t have to always let them in.

@Kay we had so called friends and they said hubby was abusive but they didn't find anything

I have done everything the judge has told me to and the proof of it. I have sent the proof to my attorneys