Keeping future pregnancies to myself

I was reflecting on my pregnancy, how it went and how it changed my relationship to family and friends. My daughter had a stroke in utero and we found out when she was 3 days old. She’s a year old today and happy as a bunny. Your typical 1 year old menace, running and causing chaos lol. I’ve also had to have a c- section. Because of everything, whenever I mention a second pregnancy or thinking of trying, I’m met with negativity all around the block. “But you’ve had a c-section, shouldn’t you wait at least 3 years?” “ your daughter had a stroke, shouldn’t you ease off having kids? Maybe next time will be the same or worse” I’m just constantly met with negativity and shit like this. My husband and I are TTC for baby#2 and I’ve decided not to tell a single soul. I just can’t be asked to be around people and having to hear the fake sympathy and know it all bullshit. All I’m met with is negativity & I get it, it’s not coming from a bad place but sincerely, fuck off. I just needed to vent omg, this felt good