Baby meeting don’t make me feel any better
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I know the feeling. Though i didnt become a single mom till a few months after my son was born. I seen what could have been but shit happened and we split. I see couples happy together and father helping while im doing it all even during when i bring my son to his father to visit and it squeezes my heart. Even in my bluest of moments my son brings me out because he doesnt understand and just makes me smile the second he gives me his smile. Some men suck but there are good ones, but for now focus on you and baby because no matter what the little one will love you
You mentioned youre having a son, i read somewhere if a womans first born is a girl the woman needed maturity, if first born she needed love. From my experience with my son and how my love life went its true, without my son i wouldnt have realized my relationship with my sons father was toxic and theres no better love than a son and he has helped me figure out what i want in my love life by only focusing on him and me.
I'm so sorry mama!! God bless you🩷 things will get better. Right now you have to be strong. And you already are from the sound of it.
I'm so sorry mama!! God bless you🩷 things will get better. Right now you have to be strong. And you already are from the sound of it.
Bless you, I can understand why you’d feel like that and have so much respect for mums doing if alone! It’s not embarrassing, it’s embarrassing for him that he’d get you pregnancy and do a runner, it’s disgusting behaviour but you can’t help what he does, you can only control your actions. Remember that child who has one loving parents is perfectly great so try to accept that this is how it is now and move on, prioritise your baby and do everything you can for them. Fuck the dad, your child will appreciate you so much when they’re older for doing the best you could on your own!
You aren’t alone. I have those same feelings and have been going through this alone also. I joined this app to try and meet people and help me feel better, but now the only thing I use it for is to read posts for information. It’s hard going through this alone but you’ll get through it. We all will and just remember it’s temporary and to take it day by day. That’s what I’ve been doing and I know once baby girl gets here (hopefully this weekend), she’ll take my mind off of my other worries and stressors.