Husband extremely sensitive about ss

A little back story, ss will be 9 next month. Bio mom has always been very difficult to deal with when it comes to time sharing, anything and everything. Not even exaggerating. It’s been hell for me. All the drama. She goes against the court order A LOT!! Does whatever she wants and always wants things her way. Every time I bring up to my husband that he needs to inform the courts that way someone say set her straight and these issues could hopefully stop, he literally EXPLODES ON ME!!!! I don’t understand. He gets extremely angry when I suggest anything that could potentially fix these constant issue we keep having with ss bio mom. Then later apologizes and says “sorry but that subject really sets me off” wtf ?? Why explode on me when I’m suggesting things to help and lessen the drama. Sometimes I feel like there’s something he’s hiding as to why he doesn’t want to take her to court for anything. It’s been 5 years of her going against court orders and doing whatever she wants. Anyone else husband acts weird about their child ? He has exploded on me a few times already just from me bringing up this subject and mentioning ss. Sometimes when he acts this way towards me it makes me feel so much anger and frustration towards ss. I can’t help that feeling. But it’s literally my husband making me feel that feeling towards ss.

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Your gut knows there’s more to it. Stop allowing him to treat you that way. There’s no excuse in the world for exploding on someone- especially whom you love and are building a life with. Once is an oops, after that he is deliberately disrespecting you.

My husband's ex-wife is like this. She has fabricated stuff and took the kids away through the court twice. Both times he has gotten his time with the kids back because the court figures out her lies. He is pretty adamant about not involving the court when she goes against the parenting plan because of losing the kids twice already. It used to drive me nuts but I had to let those feelings go. Now I keep track of everything in a binder just in case he needs or wants it. You never know. Try not to take it personally if he isn't willing to explain why it sets him off so badly. Hope things get better in time for you guys.

Could be because it's alot of stress and money going back to court🤷‍♀️ My husband is the same he gets annoyed with situations around his daughter and baby mum

I have noticed this dynamic in several blended families, including my own. My husband is very sensitive when it comes to my SD because her bio mom was an absolutely wretched person according to everyone. They (our partners) are willing to burn bridges over the one they experienced the trauma with. I’m not sure why. It would definitely be an interesting study

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