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Oh goodness haha good luck!

I’m sure things will be hard and chaotic at times…but i know that it will also be a lot of fun!! My siblings and I are close in age and we LOVE it!! ❤️☺️ I’m pregnant with #2 so I can’t even pretend to know how you must feel! But try to stay positive! This baby is coming right when it is supposed to 🥰

I’m also in the same situation 2 year old and 9 month old

@Tegan how far along are you and how are you coping with the news??

I would say after this one, please use protection because the first 2 years after given birth you are extremely fertile, should’ve learned that when you had your second soon after your first. Or just get your partner/husband to get a vasectomy. If you’re pregnant then that’s just what it is. I don’t know if abortion is an option, but still something you would need to discuss with your husband anyway. Should really be more careful. But you can’t change that now, so just prepare yourself for when the next one arrives. You’ve done it before, just have to do it all again.

@Nattinan this is an extremely rude comment. Not appreciated at all especially when I’m clearly trying to seek some support. Do you not think I was using protection? For some people, contraception can fail or their body can reject it. Also you don’t know my religion or beliefs to judge, maybe we don’t believe in contraception? I would never consider abortion either as I couldn’t love anyone more than my kids and don’t believe in it except for in certain circumstances. Please learn from YOUR mistakes and don’t be so rude to people again when you don’t know the circumstances

I standby my comments. I did not offend you in anyway. As you said, I don’t know you personally so I don’t know what you do or did to prevent pregnancy soon after birth. Fact is fact. Whether it’s failed contraception, or that you did not believe in contraception due to religious beliefs, or you didn’t use any, you fell pregnant. I don’t know your thoughts on abortion either, so I just say that since I know, to some people that I’ve seen on peanuts, have talked about that possibility before. I didn’t want to be closed minded. You’re clearly scared about having another one this soon, but since you had two under two, it’s clear that you may didn’t take contraception seriously at all. If you’re religious then it’s just the way it is. Every time you have sex, there’s always a possibility of getting pregnant especially without any contraceptions in place. This is just the way that I am and you don’t have to like me for being that way. You can either accept my opinion or you don’t.

@Nattinan wow. I hope you don’t have daughters because you would be a shit mum to one with that attitude. YES you DID offend me. You are saying I don’t take contraception seriously “at all” which is just completely untrue. Take yourself off this app if you’re going to comment RUDE and UNWANTED comments on peoples posts when this is supposed to be a SUPPORTIVE platform. You are correct about one thing, you don’t know me or my thoughts or anything about me so DO NOT sit there and judge me and be a keyboard warrior saying I’m scared or saying I am not taking contraception seriously. My 2 under 2 were actually planned but this baby wasn’t YET will be more loved than you ever will you HIDEOUS, HORRIBLE human being. God love your kids, your husband and your family you absolute waste of a life

@Nattinan I’m sorry but what gives you the right to come on this poor womens post and pretty much say consider abortion. Unless you have something actually helpful rather then putting her down please do not put your thoughts out there. Do understand your entitled to your own opinion, but maybe it’s time to learn to not put it out there I’m in the exact same position as this women. Regardless if it was an accident, or we were trying to conceive there is still a baby who is wanted otherwise this post wouldn’t have been put up. So please again, do not put replies like this. It isn’t helping anyone.