Struggling!!!

Does anyone feel like they’ve just well and truly had enough! Work is killing me off slowly with the demands and pressure of the business, my pregnancy has been nothing but a constant battle of either illness/sickness/aches/pains/tiredness or generally just crying for the sake of it. My poor husband must of well and truly had enough of me because I know I have!! We have a happy, healthy 10 year old boy who is my absolute world. We have 2 angel babies 👼👼 that absolutely ripped us apart and i want to be forever grateful we have had another chance of being able to carry healthily and bring another into this world but i feel just so so low and question everything all of the time.

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I’m so sorry to hear that it’s just awful❤️My back and feet are always in pain at work. I work in a cafe so I’m constantly on my feet I’ve had like 3 days off now only have a 5 hour shift and all I want to do is sit down and take my shoes off. I’m sure your husband understands ,carrying a baby is so hard. I’m only 21 weeks and I want to quit work already but as you probably know it’s not just as easy to quit especially with a baby on the way as they’re so expensive. Just try to relax as much as you can and not stress about what your husband thinks because your amazing and your doing such a good job! X

I'm with you here - struggling with work , lots of business expectations, I need to run meetings, produce lots of presentations, keep communication between the functions... And all I want is just to rest, go for walks, cook nice things and think about my baby and plan for the future! And I cannot do it working full time.... So sending you lots of love - we'll get through this period!

@Kayce hard graft isn’t it! Juggling lots of things all in one 😅 I would love to say enough is enough but can’t live on nothing unfortunately! Thank you for your comment 🧡

@Yuliia aww it’s horrible isn’t it! I have had to drop a few hours because I generally can’t physically or mentally do it anymore and work have granted that but it’s so demanding mentally! Plus a house to run, my boy to sort, making sure my husband is looked after as he works solid all week and here I am moaning how sh*t I feel constantly. Feels nice to have people who are in the same boat! 🧡 thankyou! I hope it gets better for you soon!!!

No advice, I’m just sending you compassionate virtual hugs!!! I’m also finding exhaustion and general aches/pains tough with work and the rest of life, but YOU CAN DO THIS!! It’s okay to cry anytime, it’s okay to complain or feel down, even when you are also super grateful for this pregnancy! This is a complicated and emotional time, and you’re not alone feeling that way. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤰💪💯

@Sophie Thankyou for the message and the hugs! I feel like they are very much needed at the minute 🧡 I am not a crier or a complainer as a rule and normally very mentally strong but feel just lately I’m slowly loosing myself and with the added pressure of juggling everything all together can get a bit much. It’s nice to know these feelings are shared by many though makes me feel like I can breath a little and it’s normal! 🥰

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