You are correct. You have your daughter to think about. You don’t want your daughter growing up thinking that’s the appropriate way to speak to people or the appropriate way to be spoken to by a man. It’s important to be the example of a strong women, especially with girls! Sometimes we’re better parents/ people apart. If you’re 100% present while with him, then work through it, but if you know it’s too much to handle, the baby will only intensify it and you’d be a better mom, single. Best of luck from a fellow girl mom 🩷
I felt trapped out of fear in a situation and eventually had three kids and got even more stuck. I finally left when my oldest got old enough to look me in the eye and tell me I needed to leave her dad and we all deserved better. Please learn from me. The sense of peace we all felt once I finally left his house and had my own space was amazing. My oldest had to take counseling at first because her dad lost his mind and got really physical the day I kicked him out. But her relationship with him is soo much better without her having to witness him calling me a bitch and throwing fits all the time.
If your going through emotional abuse then you won’t be able to be the best for your daughter.