what do i do

i just caught my daughters step mom on here (she has no kids of her own), calling my daughter hers. i took care of her fully solo for the first 7 months of her life. my daughter spent 2 months over there due to some housing hardships, and i wanted her to have a safe and stable environment. she is now 10 months old. she got with my bd when i was 3 months pregnant, tried to bait him with a baby but ended up guilt tripping everyone with her miscarriage. i understand grief comes in different forms but this is not okay. how do i approach this?

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also not to mention my daughter never even had colic, worst problem was cradle cap. she was sleeping thru the night starting at 3m. she comes back to me with an ugly diaper rash, "eczema", and a fear of her crib. like bloody murder screaming. they are a house of like 6 adults to take care of her, and she was perfectly fine when it was just and only me. how does that happen?

there is no custody agreement nor do i have the legal funds to create one

When you mean you caught her “on here” do you mean she has a profile on Peanut and has been saying all this stuff?

Take your child back, confront them about it and report her account. That's what I'd do anyways. I'd also refuse to let my child anywhere near her. What the hell has happened for a perfectly happy baby to go into their care only to be handed back traumatised. 1000% not okay!

@Neena yes

@Neena i reported the profile but this definitely requires further action

@Pia thank u. they always paint me out to sound paranoid and crazy but theyve been playing games from the start

Ugh, I never trust people that play games... especially with the care of a child i volved. They sound toxic 😞

@Pia they are and i KNEW it when i found out i was pregnant & left.... then when i needed help i chalked it up to hormones 🤦‍♀️

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