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Honestly it gets sooo much better. I was the same for a few months. I honestly thought what have I done. I would dread everyday as she was so unsettled. I would be so jealous of my partner who got to go to work everyday. Everything changed for me at around 5 months, I currently have a 8 month old who is the most happy fun baby ever. I love my life, I love our little routine and I enjoy everyday with her now. The newborn stage is so hard but it gets so better. I said to myself I can’t see me having another baby at the time but I am currently 4 months pregnant because of how good it gets. You’ve got this honestly. I wish I didn’t now wish the newborn stage away because of how I felt. Xx
I was the same for the first month or so, I regretted having her and then felt guilty for thinking those things.it honestly doesn't last forever. It's also totally normal due to all the crazy hormones. I know the weather is shit right now but honestly just getting out the house for even a few minutes really helped me. I walked round and round the local park wearing sunglasses because I was crying. Also drive through coffees literally saved me. Sending love x
Saaame, unfortunately I can't offer you any advice on how to cope but I have been there as well, Just know that with every difficult period an amazing period is just waiting round the corner, it's so hard to see when you are in the thick of it, crazy hormones still running around your system, lack of sleep and having to adjust to a new way of life. As you can see many have gone through this, there is absolutely no shame in feeling this way, maybe speak to your health visitor, there are support groups available. I found when I was able to take my LG out to groups or just out on walks I had an improvement. Just know you are doing an amazing job!
I felt the same the first three months. I was so down I couldn’t see the light at the end of it. I’m the happiest mama now with such a happy baby. Sometimes it’s overwhelming how much I love him. It’s the way they tell you but you won’t understand it until you experience it. 🥰 it’s coming mama! Stay strong!!! 💕
I’m in fishponds feel free to message me I’m more than happy to meet up if your close xx
You are doing amazing mama! It is the hardest job in the world! Your baby loves and needs you and is expressing that through crying etc. You are strong, powerful and amazing!!! 🥰💜