judgemental people

I would never say I didn’t want my son, he was simply unplanned

Literally when I was pregnant a lot of the older mothers were the biggest haters!!

I was 20 when I had my baby but we planned to have her, honestly there are so many judgey people out there xx

I literally heard the ladies at my doctors office talking about how I must be so bored since I’m young and have two kids the one nurse also said to my face how I’m just a baby and shouldn’t even be having kids and that her son is the same age as me and blah blah blah. I literally could not even believe it and this is my second baby!!!! I’ve never had this issue in California. None of my doctors said anything about me being young etc, but over here in New Jersey I hear it so much. It is really weird.

@Annie I would definitely switch Doctors ASAP.. is it your OB or just a doctor? I wouldn’t want that energy around me, seriously that’s so rude and none of their business. Very unprofessional. At the end of my OB Visits they’d give me a paper and it has the doctors name on top of it and you write how they did. I would ask for that next time u go and get their names & complain.

@Ariyana ya i should’ve but i’m under the capital health umbrella so it’s like a team i don’t have just 1 OB i see different OBs every time. it was just shocking lol or every time i bring up this being my last baby and getting my tubes tied etc. they always try to talk me out of it like “but you’re so young” uhh ya i am young but i have TWO kids lol like im done having kids now so give me the consent form 😂👏🏼 i didn’t know abt rating ur doctors and stuff so that’s good to know if it happens again but im sure it wont bc i shut that one nurse down when she tried to tell me im a baby lol

@Annie I had different obs each time too and one of them made snarly comments at me too, tell the people at the front not to schedule you with doctor so & so