Mil drama
Just venting!!
Usually me and my mil get on very well
But she has no privacy!!
I told her I was pregnant with my first and she went and told everyone
I specifically asked her not to reveal the gender to anyone - yet she still did that
Now I’m pregnant with my second and she saw me vomitting and badgered me into telling her I was pregnant - and then she went and told my family about it before I even had the chance to break the news!! This obviously pissed me off as I already had a reveal in place
I then told her I don’t think I’ll tell you the gender - after she asked me 10 times to tell her and she got super offended (hubby took her side - saying obvs anyone would offended at that)
Anyways we ended up doing a gender reveal and I’m pretty sure she’s already told some people…
I’m not even sure what im doing wrong with asking - I’ve said it multiple times - as has my husband
Hubby doesn’t understand why it’s such a big deal now as I’m almost 5 months - but I had a special way of wanting to break it to my friends and family - and I feel like that’s been stripped away from me TWICE!
Maybe I’m kind of naive - but it’s difficult to keep it a secret because we live together and she is very involved in our lives (which is not a problem until it is..)
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My partners mum is the same with me even takes the only scan pic i had for the scan for the gender im kinda starting to learn nothing is about what we want its about them and there needs/wants
I’ve spoken to him about this a lot, but he doesn’t really seem to understand, it always ends up with me being frustrated and then he agreeing to talk to her..!but never in front of me so idk what has been said or done as it keeps happening 😣
Yeah, and I get that they’re excited to be grandparents but I am also excited and want it done my way
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Don’t tell either one of them anything. And if your husband can’t be man enough to understand that it’s an invasion of privacy then you need to have a talk with him. And tell her to mind her business. Tell him that certain things need to stay between yall until you are ready to share. It’s supposed to be you and him not you him and his mom. This is what causes issues in peoples relationships and end up in divorce because their partner doesn’t stick up for them. You have a two handed circle. If I were you I would really have a talk with him and let him know. My mom was like that until I had a talk with her that if she does something like that again she won’t know anything. Set them boundaries now before it gets too late.