Sex life
My sex life has decreased with my partner, before I got pregnant sex was much better and oral sex was included. Since I got pregnant, I can count the amount of sexy time I had which was around 4 times and excluded oral sex which is important to me. I had thrush during my pregnancy therefore my partner didn’t want to do this and my bump was also in the way which made things difficult. Now I’ve given birth, oral sex is non-existent , thrush has disappeared and I have asked which he said it’s because he needs to be mentally prepared to give me oral due to him seeing the placenta coming out of me and seeing me bleed. Majority of time, I have to seduce my partner to sleep with me or I have to persistently beg .. he rarely brings up sex now and he only bought it up once since I had been cleared to have sex. I’m a Christian and i didn’t want to seek masturbation but now I have been masturbating since it is difficult to get partner to sleep with me without me begging him or trying numerous times to get him hard / interested in sleeping with me. What do you think I could do? Any advice would be great.
Pray for your husband!! He is not going to be perfect but pray that God reunites you both in that way to love eachother physically. Ask God for the strength to endure this hard season and to be able to refrain from self pleasure. God will redeem this situation if your surrender this to Him. I’d also recommend starting intimacy in the beginning of the week/ day, it starts with little things like making your husbands favorite meal maybe or being really loving without the expectation of sex. You could send him a spicy picture or write a note and slip it in his lunch box for work even. I hope this helps!! Hang in there!! Godbless