There a difference btw mom and dad gamers?

In the beginning the adjustment was challenging but I realized me gaming and my kids ..it’s just a phase right now with how often I play. But has anyone gave their partner an attitude and moped and groaned about taking care of their baby? assuming both wanted a family ofcourse

Yes and no - my little one is 9 months and I'm the one that does 90% of looking after her. But sometimes my partner likes to moan that he never gets any time to himself anymore. So I moaned back to make him realise 😂😂 (for example, path of exile 2 came out on Friday, he was out for work on Monday but he's already over 40 hours into it, yet he says he never gets time ti himself 😅) I love my daughter to bits, I really do, but i struggle with adjusting some times and I do really miss gaming. I just try not to moan as we did both want her and I feel it's not fair on my little one. But I have moaned before lol

I have verbally complained only because my hubby does whatever he pleases while I watch the LO. Every game I mention wanting to try, he binge plays for days until 3am so i cant even play when bub is asleep. All while I'm spending time with our child. He doesn't help feed, Bath, nap, etc. I can't even take a poo alone cuz when he "watches" our son for 5 mins I can either hear him crying at the door or my hubby says "whered mommy go? Go find her" and when I leave the bathroom my hubby is on his phone watching memes or whatever. Don't get me wrong. I absolutely adore my son and we both wanted him but my hubby convinced me to have a child so having the games that I wanted to try playing in the background of my day is kinda a slap in the face when he has other games he could play and at least wait til bub is asleep so I can watch the story line if he's gonna be greedy and play all night lol I gotta get another TV so I can have my own mini game sessions at night I guess..😮‍💨