BJ postpartum

So after 1 week of postpartum rage and admitting I need to talk to the Dr about it, I found myself giving my husband a bj and really wanting to passionately hug. It's really strange feeling bc I had been talking so much crap to him and he's been on defense for so long I was shocked to him change the nb & then start doing the dishes at 3am. My question: is a sexually satisfied husband this helpful always or should I keep the bj's like uno wild cards?