Miscarriage

I’m so sorry you have to experience this and become a part of a club no one asks for. My heart is with you. I’d say feel all that you need and want to feel and then try again when you feel ready and once your body has healed.

Thank you so much for this it was so hard hearing the doctor say it knowing we have been trying for 5 years and was told I could never have kids

I’ve had two miscarriages within 5 months of one another this year and one of the things I reminded myself of was that the fact that I got pregnant was half of the journey. I know it can be hard to see it now, but if you were told you could never have kids, your body is telling you otherwise. The fact that you got pregnant means that it is very possible you’ll get pregnant again. I got pregnant quite quickly without trying after I finally got my period back from my first miscarriage in April. I had my second the first week of October, got my period back as expected at the end of the month and now I’m 6w4d pregnant with what my doctor says is a very viable pregnancy. Hold onto the hope and faith as much as you can but also feel everything you need to. Miscarriage and pregnancy loss is such a dualistic experience.

I’m sorry you had to go through this. I was in a very similar place in June this year. I was devastated and still am. Once you test negative you can start TTC but you might not ovulate straight away because I didn’t ovulate until I got my first proper period after my miscarriage which was 6 weeks later. You might be different just test if you are ovulating in about two weeks once you are negative on a pregnancy test.

@Ashley thanks for sharing your positive experience. I’ve been feeling a bit low last few weeks and this has been reassuring ❤️

@Nesha If you ever need some extra love and encouragement, I’m here. 🤍

I understand how you feel, had a miscarriage last month was my first pregnancy. If you want to talk I am here ❤️

From experience, do what your body feels. If you want to carry on then carry on, if you want to govern yourself a break then you know what to do. Miscarrying is very traumatic and daunting, always talk to someone about it, especially people who have been through it. It’s hard to explain what you feel when they don’t understand. You can always message me, I know exactly what you’re going through and it’s horrendous! I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this 🤍