Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

How long do the cramps last? The heavy bleeding? I have a high pain tolerance but these cramps are making me cry.. and I’m on like day 3/4.. I’ve already been to the ER where they confirmed it was a miscarriage. Is this normal.. I’m also alone, caring for my 2 year old 😭

and there was no one you knew living anywhere nearby, and your husband was away for several weeks, your family lived about 400 miles away, and (due to living in a new area) you knew no one anywhere nearby, you’re home alone - would you be worried/scared? Or something else?

Hey moms! When did you try again after a miscarriage and how many cycles/months did it take for a successful pregnancy??

First time mom here. I’m 7 weeks and 5 days and for the last 3 and a half weeks, my bump (or what I thought was my bump) was REALLY bumping. Now it looks like I’m not even pregnant yet so what the heck. Everything is fine. No bleeding or severe cramping. Just not much of a bump anymore. I go in Monday for my 8 week ...

I found out yesterday I was pregnant and now I'm having a miscarriage this is the third time this is happening I'm in so much pain I'm heartbroken Maybe my body is not ready I am dealing a lot of blood clots and pain I'm crying so much

I am pregnant 10+2 weeks today. I had a miscarriage in April and another one in September. I had a scan at 7+3 weeks with a strong heartbeat and started taking progesterone then. Today I was on the sofa with my family, noted something and felt like I wee myself. Went to the toilet and saw blood in my underwear, trou...

I recently lost my first pregnancy this summer, had a suction d&c and ended up in the er a week later for a 2nd suction d&c because half of my baby, placenta and umbilical cord was left inside of me. I almost died that day…at least I felt like I was going to die. This all happened 2 months ago. I am now trying for m...

I had my first miscarriage last Monday at 7 weeks, and my husband and I are devastated. For those who’ve experienced this, how long did it take for you to conceive again successfully? Did you start trying right away, or did you wait until after your first period post-miscarriage?

I had my first miscarriage last Monday at 7 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are heartbroken. For those who’ve been through this, how long did it take for you to have a successful pregnancy? Was it a long wait? Did you try again right away, or did you wait until after your first period following the miscarriage?

I’ve been very active in this group, and it’s been a wonderful space to ask questions and connect. However, now that I’ve experienced my first miscarriage, I find it difficult to see all the lovely posts, as they remind me of where I could have been in my pregnancy. The past few days have been incredibly tough, but...

I’m currently having my third pregnancy loss and was advised by the midwives at my early pregnancy centre to book an appointment with the GP as they can refer me to see if there is any underlining causes for the miscarriages. Has anyone gone and gotten referred from the Gp? And if so, what tests do they do? I’m rel...

Went to the hospital today in pain to find out I had a miscarriage on my first pregnancy, I don’t know how to feel and what to do, does anyone have advice on when we can start trying again 😔😔

How long did it take for medical management to work for you? I am almost 5 hours in and worried i’m going to be the 15-20% it doesn’t work for and can’t face it not working. Thanks!

I had my 8th miscarriage 6 weeks ago in November I was 7w 6d pregnant I’ve decided to try again but I’m not gonna try to march any tips of what I should do to prepare for re trying in March

Am I wrong from snooping when I suspected something was being hidden from me and has been an issue in the past and lied about before? I snooped and found exactly was I suspected. I feel wrong for snooping but I also feel super hurt and betrayed.

So I stopped bleeding on Wednesday after a week of that and clots, it was confirmed to me yesterday the miscarriage has taken place. My question is can I try again now? I don’t want to start wasting ovulation tests as they are expensive but how else do you know when to start trying again? The nurse said they recom...

Hi ladies, I experienced a miscarriage at 11 weeks on December 9th. This was my first pregnancy. The doctor advised that we can try again whenever we feel ready. I haven’t had a D&C. I’m still bleeding. For those who have been through a similar experience, how long did you wait before trying again?

I miscarried last week. I am no longer in any pain or bleeding. I know the doctors say to wait until your next period to try again but has anyone tried before your period and fell pregnant? Or is it too early to try again?

I have a two-year-old, wonderful, beautiful daughter. This year I’ve had two miscarriages and I’m currently pregnant. I should be showing at eight weeks four days, however, my ultrasound shows as six weeks one day. The baby’s heart rate was only 83 bpm, basically half of what it should be. I was told that they can’t...

Had a miscarriage when I was barely 3 weeks pregnant on October 20th and overall lasted a week. Doctors confirmed all tissue had passed and I was no longer pregnant. So imagine my surprise when on November 27th I get a very positive pregnancy test! Has this happened to others? Any idea on how far along I could even ...