Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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3 losses in a row

I’m currently having my third pregnancy loss and was advised by the midwives at my early pregnancy centre to book an appointment with the GP as they can refer me to see if there is any underlining causes for the miscarriages. Has anyone gone and gotten referred from the Gp? And if so, what tests do they do? I’m rel...

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Miscarriage

Went to the hospital today in pain to find out I had a miscarriage on my first pregnancy, I don’t know how to feel and what to do, does anyone have advice on when we can start trying again 😔😔

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Miscarriage medical management

How long did it take for medical management to work for you? I am almost 5 hours in and worried i’m going to be the 15-20% it doesn’t work for and can’t face it not working. Thanks!

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I’m so anxious

I had my 8th miscarriage 6 weeks ago in November I was 7w 6d pregnant I’ve decided to try again but I’m not gonna try to march any tips of what I should do to prepare for re trying in March

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Am I wrong?

Am I wrong from snooping when I suspected something was being hidden from me and has been an issue in the past and lied about before? I snooped and found exactly was I suspected. I feel wrong for snooping but I also feel super hurt and betrayed.

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Wanting to try after miscarriage

So I stopped bleeding on Wednesday after a week of that and clots, it was confirmed to me yesterday the miscarriage has taken place. My question is can I try again now? I don’t want to start wasting ovulation tests as they are expensive but how else do you know when to start trying again? The nurse said they recom...

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Seeking Advice After 11-Week Miscarriage

Hi ladies, I experienced a miscarriage at 11 weeks on December 9th. This was my first pregnancy. The doctor advised that we can try again whenever we feel ready. I haven’t had a D&C. I’m still bleeding. For those who have been through a similar experience, how long did you wait before trying again?

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Too early after a MC?

I miscarried last week. I am no longer in any pain or bleeding. I know the doctors say to wait until your next period to try again but has anyone tried before your period and fell pregnant? Or is it too early to try again?

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Waiting for the heart to stop

I have a two-year-old, wonderful, beautiful daughter. This year I’ve had two miscarriages and I’m currently pregnant. I should be showing at eight weeks four days, however, my ultrasound shows as six weeks one day. The baby’s heart rate was only 83 bpm, basically half of what it should be. I was told that they can’t...

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Pregnancy right after miscarriage?

Had a miscarriage when I was barely 3 weeks pregnant on October 20th and overall lasted a week. Doctors confirmed all tissue had passed and I was no longer pregnant. So imagine my surprise when on November 27th I get a very positive pregnancy test! Has this happened to others? Any idea on how far along I could even ...

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Period after miscarriage

I had a chemical miscarage at 5 weeks pregnant , started bleeeding on the 9th of November for 10 days but still not had a period and ovulation tests are ALL over the place (low and high every other day) has anyone else found this with ovulation after miscarage? How soon after miscarriage did everyone get there period?

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Found out I have a unicornuate uterus

After telling every doctor how baby girl has always favored my right side, finally one doctor felt my abdomen completely and told me I only have half a uterus. Explains my previous loss and issues with a short cervix with this one. It's nice to finally have an explanation but very frustrating that no one cared to ex...

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Tips to keep pregnancy secret until 16 weeks

So I’ve had numerous amounts of miscarriages. I was just wondering how people keep their pregnancy a secret. I’ve never been able to and then I don’t like the pity I get when I miscarry

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Feeling so disheartened

Been trying to conceive baby number 2 since April. I had an ectopic in July with surgery to remove a tube, and I’m now going through an early miscarriage at a little over 5 weeks. It just feels so unfair 😩

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Pregnancy after tube surgery and ectopic pregnancy.

Hey all, I had a tube removal and ectopic pregnancy removed a few months ago and now I’ve had my second period I’m ready to start trying again. If anyone had the same how soon did you catch pregnant? I really want a 2025 baby and feel like I won’t get pregnant for 2025. I’ve changed my diet so now it’s more healthy...

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Ovulation

When did you ovulate after miscarriage

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Ttc after miscarriage

Just wondering when did you ovulate after miscarriage and how long has it taken to get pregnant. TIA 🙏🏼

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Threatened miscarriage

Looking for stories of people who have experienced this. I’m super worried and upset. I’m 6 weeks pregnant and had a lot of bleeding and clots, went to hospital they scanned me and said I’m measuring more 3/4 weeks which makes no sense so they cannot tell at this stage if evening will be ok I have to go back in a we...

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Feeling hopeful 🙏🏼

Usually I am seeking advice on here on support through my miscarriages. I’m wanting to bring a little lightness to this experience. After two miscarriages this year, I found out last week that I am pregnant again at 3/4 weeks (5 weeks now). I’ve had two blood draws so far; first round my levels were perfect and wa...

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Trigger miscarriage pending 😭

I was 7 weeks yesterday had some bleeding and a little clot well embryo measuring smaller like more towards 5 weeks and the heart is beating 81 bpm anyone been told miscarriage and it actually grew hcg levels was 410.2 yesterday 12/5/24 and Sunday 12/8/24 levels dropped to 205 Update I miscarried the (baby) (embry...

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