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Advice

So I'm 7w 1d ( 7w2d tomorrow ) and I dont feel excited yet because I've had 7 previous miscarriages I've got a scan next week when ill be 7w 5d and I'm super anxious for it because I'm thinking the worse and thinking there's not gonna be anything on the scan anyone got any advice to help me try to relax and calm my...

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Pregnancy test

Probably a silly question... When they say you may not get a negative pregnancy until 2-4 weeks after a miscarriage, does this mean from when the miscarriage started or after it has finished? 🤔

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How long did your first period take to come back?

My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 11 weeks in September 21. I still haven’t had my first period.

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

I had a medical and then subsequent surgical miscarriage procedure on 7th August. The first month my period was very light only lasting two days, and the next month it was 5 days and heavier. I am now a month late and have done a test with shows positive. Could this be the hormones from before or after new pregnan...

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PP Bleeding after C Section

I had my second C Section on the 13th December 2023. I have between 2-3 periods a month and have done since my daughter was born. I’ve had blood tests which come back everything is fine except I’m now anaemic due to it, I’ve had STI and STD checks done which have came back all negative and I’ve had scans done which ...

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Haematoma

Just had a 10 week scan and haematoma seen between yolk sack and uterus, not near where placenta is. Didn’t have this with first pregnancy and was told quite common and should resolve itself in a few weeks. I’ve not had any bleeding so far just wondering if I should be worried, online it says can increase risk of mi...

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Pregnancy after a miscarriage

So I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks a few months ago and we are now trying again. How is the NHS care different? Like do you get more appointments etc and can you request an earlier scan as I think waiting til 12 weeks would be too stressful. I have a 2 year old and was told at my first midwife appointment in my l...

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After a miscarriage did you get pregnant within 3 months after?

I read that it’s easier to get pregnant within 3 months of a miscarriage.

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How to break the news to someone who can not conceive

Some background info before the actual question. So I have this former close friend (we have drifted apart lately) who had been trying to conceive for years and had a miscarriage two years ago. Understandably she is quite traumatized about the pregnancy topic with all the treatments she had gone through and everythi...

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Bleeding

Anyone ever bled at 8 weeks pregnant and it not be a miscarriage I’m sat in a&e there’s not blood clots and my stomach isn’t hurting I’m just concerned and upset and it’s taking ages to be seen. Any advice on what happens when you go to A&E with bleeding??

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Fainting

So today I had my first experience of fainting. I had been to the doctor for my little boy who gave me a prescription. I then went to get the prescription for a local Asda pharmacy and as I got out of the car and shut the door quite badly on my little finger which was actually very sore at the time. I could feel t...

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Miscarriage

Would you know if your having miscarriage at 18 weeks

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subchorionic hemorrhage

has anyone had a subchorionic hemorrhage before? and what did your doctor recommended?

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Ovulation after miscarriage

I had a D&C 10 days ago, I had very minimal bleeding after and I’m starting to get fertile mucus this morning. Does that seem too soon?! Or does your body snap right back into ovulating?! ❤️

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Pregnancy immediately after ectopic

Has anyone got pregnant successfully before the first period following surgery for ectopic?

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Successful pregnancy after 2 miscarriages

I had my boy in March 2022, and I fell pregnant in April 2023, miscarried bub at 8/9 weeks. Felt ready to try again. I fell pregnant September this year, and I miscarried again a week ago at 6+6. I saw bubs heartbeat a day before and saw that bub was measuring at 6 weeks. Have any mums been through something similar...

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🆘

I’m just feeling a bit overwhelmed. Currently in the process of a miscarriage and I’m pretty sure my LO has RSV and I can’t get him to take any paracetamol. 😩. I’m just an anxious mess. Anyone got any experience of RSV with their little ones.

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How to handle miscarriage

Hi ladies, I really wanted to take opinions from people who experienced this themselves.. I’m going through a miscarriage (first trimester) and the doctor I’m seeing gave me some options on how to go about it. They mentioned to me that I can either let it pass naturally, take a pill that will force me to get my peri...

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Feeling sad.

I just had a miscarriage and our friends have just excitedly announced their pregnancy to us via Facetime. I am happy for them, but sad for us. It's hit me like a tonne of bricks, particularly as she is the same gestation as I would have been 💔. I know these are ugly feelings but I feel so angry at the universe 😔.…

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Missed miscarriage

My tests about 5 days ago were slightly positive with a few symptoms of slight nausea tenderness breast and bloating. Now my tests are negative and I’ve got stretchy pinky brown discharge coming away from me. I’m guessing this is the start to a missed misscairage. I’ve no pain just slightly crampy

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