Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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Happy and terrified…

Hi all, just wanted to tell someone we had a positive pregnancy test last week! I’m 35 and this is my first pregnancy and I’m so happy and elated and terrified all at the same time. My mum had 6 miscarriages and I’m terrified that will happen. I’d love to meet this little bump in October. I’ve researched it, but I c...

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Surgical management- miscarriage and what to expect??

This is our third miscarriage, the previous two were natural. They were very painful and full on but I don’t know what to expect with surgical. We found out in mid December that we were going to miscarry. There was a follow up scan in January and decided to go the natural route. Since then I had a natural miscarri...

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D&C query

Hey girls, turning 40 today and sadly found out on Friday I have had a 3rd missed miscarriage in last two years. Last couple ended up in A&E for emergency sweep so this time I’m due to have D&C tomorrow. I’m a little nervous, but also want them to hopefully be able to test. Has anyone had D&C and was it ok? Telling ...

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Am I a terrible person for not announcing my pregnancy online?

TG: MC & estrangement Hubs and I got invited to his sisters wedding. We are estranged from everyone in the family except for said sister. I don’t want to announce the pregnancy because 1) I experienced pregnancy loss a few months ago and it’s hard to get past (I’m working on it) and 2) I don’t want guilt trip ridd...

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Still bleeding 9 weeks after miscarriage

Hi all, Just reaching out to see if anyone has had anything similar to me. I unfortunately had a missed miscarriage of a very wanted pregnancy on the 30/11/24 and had medical management to help speed things along as my body wasn’t processing the loss. As of yesterday 01/02/25 it has been 9 weeks and I’m still bl...

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Thank for supporting me

Hello I came on here yesterday asking about light bleeding turns out I was having a miscarriage. Thank yall for the support in keeping my head up until I found out.

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Traumatized

So I had a traumatizing thing happen yesterday after giving birth to my last and final sone with a postpartum hemorrhage losing 2 1/2 litters of blood I was so scared my arms dead dropped my husband was freaking out thinking he was gonna lose me I had 3 things of blood put back in this was the single most terrifying...

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Cerclage 2 days away!!

I’ve been through multiple miscarriages, with the first one happening at 18 weeks. With that pregnancy, I started asking my OB for a cerclage at 12 weeks. What started as a simple request turned into begging, but he refused and insisted I didn’t need it. The thing is, every scan showed my cervix was changing. A week...

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Severe random cramps

I just recently had a miscarriage, it’ll be 3 weeks in 2 days. And I stopped bleeding and really hurting a week after. Now all of the sudden I am having severe cramping in my lower stomach , they feel like the cramps I had when I was going through everything.

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Confused , is this possible

Is this possible ? I had my second early miscarriage 2 weeks ago but never bled, my ovulation tests were super high this morning so I took a pregnancy test and positive? Pregnancy tests were negative after my miscarriage and also had blood work to confirm 2 weeks ago. What is going on??

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TW - potential miscarriage

I’m looking for some hope please 💔 I had a miscarriage in October so we were so happy to find out that we’re pregnant again. This morning, I’ve woken up and there was bright red blood, exactly like I had 2 days before I miscarried last time. The only thing that’s throwing me is I’m only 10/11dpo and my period…

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Had a day yesterday…

So yesterday was a scary day for me. Starting around 1am and not ending the scariness til just after 9pm…. So I was 23 weeks 3 days yesterday and around 1am I went to the bathroom and when I was laying back down I THOUGHT I saw something big brown and hairy crawling up my side and I FREAKED. (After extensive reflec...

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Loss

Sadly lost my little bubs today at 10+6 :( Hope you all go on to have a lovely pregnancy and birth!! Anyone who’s been through miscarriage before can you please PM me? I’m so scared with what to expect.

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Best friend pregnant

I had a miscarriage a month ago after trying for two years. My friend just texted me “I need to tell you. I’m pregnant! I know you just lost a baby so if you need time to process I totally understand. but it’s big and I hate you not knowing things, it’s been the hardest secret to keep lol” I want to be supportive...

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How to tell friend struggling with fertility

My best friend has had such a rough couple of years. She’s had 3 miscarriages a horrendous one at 13 weeks and also an ectopic pregnancy. She is the loveliest, kindest person with the best heart and would be the most amazing mother. It’s truly heartbreaking. I’m 9 weeks pregnant and starting to think how I’ll shar...

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Does it ever get any easier

Had miscarriage November 2024 and everytime a miscarriage or pregnant thing like spotting happens on a tv show or movie like it has in hollyoaks I burst into tears 😔💔

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Miscarriage

Has any one had medical management then needed surgery after as the sac remained? I feel like I can’t cope with anymore it’s been 6 weeks

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Pregnant again

Pregnant again after a missed miscarriage, any tips on how to shake off the nerves? I’m so worried/scared

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Miscarriage 6 weeks and 2 days.

I don’t know what to do. It was confirmed a miscarriage on Friday after seeing the heartbeat on the Tuesday just before :( I had already passed the baby I have pregnancy tissue up there still that I need to pass, I have been offered the pills to help speed the process up but I’m not sure what to do? I’m terrified o...

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Constant worry about another miscarriage

I had a missed miscarriage late October I was meant to be 11 weeks it was the most traumatic experience of my life as I was rushed into surgery. I already have an 8 month old but I have recently found out I am pregnant again. The constant worry and fear is unbearable. Has anyone had a miscarriage then go on to have ...

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