Husband mentioned……

That he “still likes the name ****”. This was a name we were deciding between when we named our daughter. We ended up not going with it and picking another. and this is prolly the second time in the last couple months he’s mentioned it. So I looked at him and was like what does that mean?? And he just said I dunno just saying…. Should I assume he’s wanting another baby? He’s told me before he doesn’t but making this comment makes me feel like he does.
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That's some wishful thinking, sorry to say...

Maybe he doesn’t necessarily want another right this second (or doesn’t want to pressure you), but he’s also kind of down? Depends how young your daughter is I guess… If she’s less than a year he might genuinely regret the name. Perfectly normal for people to go by names that aren’t their legal name 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Rosalie she’s 14 months. He loves the name we picked he just really likes the other name too. And when people have asked what other names we were deciding on he purposely never mentions the name… which I find odd he we were going to use it, ya know? He knows I would have more in a heartbeat. However I still haven’t gotten my period back yet and am still breastfeeding

I don't think it means what you want it to mean but the only way to know is to ask him

I think it sounds like it means he doesn’t like the name you chose, but the only way to know for sure is ask.

Sounds like he wants another baby to me.

Next time he makes the comment, ask him directly if he's wanting another baby. It sounds like he's trying to get you to start that conversation

@incognito It sounds like he’s probably waiting for a good time to talk about make another one 😊 Like he doesn’t necessarily want one right now but he’s kind of “second-child-curious” 😂 Regardless you could always talk to him about it and see!

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