My daughters preschool have always helped and got her changed if needs be and always give me a hand over, that's bad really they are not doing that x
I think it's worth checking in with the pre-school and asking a few probing questions. My son is the same age, and sometimes their perceptions (which are completely valid) do not align with the way we would perceive the situation.
Thanks for your replies! I spoke with pre-school and they said they promote independence and encourage children to change themselves.. I’m absolutely all for independent learning but just asked that if it were to happen again could she be assisted in at least being wiped down and then she can get herself dressed again which they agreed on so hopefully that gives my daughter some peace of mind x
I think they usually help