I got a positive and I’m so nervous

I got a very light positive this morning and I’m freaking out thinking I’m going to have a miscarriage. I don’t even want to tell me husband yet because he was so happy I was pregnant last time and then we lost the baby. I’ve been having heart palpitations and breathing weird all day because I’m so nervous. I don’t know really what I came here for, but I needed to write it down somewhere.
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For me I felt a lot better when I told my husband. You want to be in it together

I would tell him. It's easier with support from loved ones no matter how the pregnancy goes. With mine that ended early i was glad we got to experience the pregnancy together while it lasted. I'm sorry you have had to experience loss it makes pregnancy a lot more frightening. I'm hoping you have a wonderful and healthy pregnancy ❤️

After my first miscarriage I was in the same position as you to tell him, but I eventually told him and it felt soo much better to have the emotional support. He was supportive towards me and the situation we both knew the risks of miscarriage again. Unfortunately, that pregnancy also ended in a miscarriage but because I had my husband to lean on it was easier to manage.

I wouldn’t keep it from him if it did end in miscarriage, he’s just a very anxious person so it’s the waiting to see that really gets to him. I took another test this morning (24 hours after the first) and it’s darker than yesterday so I’m going to tell him Christmas morning if everything is still looking good.

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