Do the venting posts irritate you?

like sometimes i cannot believe what i am reading and there are SO many of these posts. im scrolling on here and its venting post after venting posts of women with these incompetent or abusive men but they won’t leave or change their situation and then end the post with something cutesy like “just venting x”
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Sometimes when it’s extreme like “my husband just punched me in my face should i give him some space?” Like babes, leave pls 😭😭

Nope, people deserve to be heard. A lot of people need to vent to process the reality. Because people who really should leave, likely don’t have anyone outside of this app to speak to about the situation they should leave.

Did this venting post irritate you when you wrote and posted it? Lol

@Coco ahahahaha

I get being upset because you would feel like it’s a no brainer. However, until you have gone through an abusive situation you don’t really understand how hard it is to leave or process how bad things are. You are brainwashed, isolated, there is trauma bonding, emotional and mental abuse etc, so no it’s not just as simple as “just leaving”. Maybe try looking at it a different way and be happy they are speaking out as these women are starting to realize something is not right/normal with how they are treated.

@Alyssa 🌹 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂….. I am weak. Literally screaming. You funny AF.

I was thinking the exact opposite yesterday. I was said to myself that it’s nice that some we have this platform to talk to strangers but we are all here for one another.

Nope they don’t annoy me I think sometimes people find it easier to vent to people they don’t know. It might be a case of they have no one to vent to IRL and they need outside perspective. They probably know deep down what they should do but I think till you are in an abusive relationship it’s easy to say just leave. I wish I had peanut app when I spent 5 years hoping a man would love me to way I deserved however as soon as I started talking to a therapist and saying things out loud to them that’s when I realised what am I doing. Left after an argument over veg in the end 😅

Nah I like them. I like giving advice if I can, it's like problem solving.

Ngl, depending on the post it's either popcorn time, or it makes me appreciate my own situation. I will offer advice on some posts if I feel like I can

I said this before but people generally don’t need to work through their happy emotions with other people. It doesn’t bother me at all.

I don't mind because sometimes you just need someone to listen

I made a post like yours questioning the logic of these women staying with abusers for years

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