My daughter out of control

Don’t be soft, set boundaries with her and have firm rules to make sure she knows that you are in charge and she has guidance to follow, it won’t be easy but she will know to look up to you! You have to be strong xx

You can do this❤️❤️

Offer her rewards for good behaviour and stickers charts x

Yup mine too and her twin brother. Cuddle and calming down, distractions, the occasional overpowering ENOUGH NOW 😂, they dont know how to process or control their feelings it wont last xx

I’m struggling with the same right now 🥺

@Sam is a big struggle for real...I want to cry myself...is so draining ,bespecialy when you have already depression

I had to go on medication for depression because of my partner has left us because they couldn’t cope with it

Ohh sorry to hear this, did your partner left because he could not tolerate cry of your child ?

Definately seek medical help theres so many different ways antidepressants can alter your mind and change your routines nowadays

Also invest in some time in child development videos online or books if you're a reader so you can feel like you understand your child more. They are expressing themselves and also their environment and its they are just as overwhelmed in this new experience as us parents. Believe me I know how hard this is its not easy atall and I dont want you to think Im being patronising because my kids are driving me insane sometimes, but I think having more understanding of the changes they go through and the reasons for their behaviour is really helpful in processing whats goinng Also i advise to get out more, step away from them when you need to and just be gentle on yourself as theres no best way to do this stuff Also speak to a health visitor! They always offer great second opinions and ease the anxiety i spoke to one about my sons eating at the beginning of the year and it really brought me back down to reality

You are not alone! I’m listening to a very nice audiobook called how to not lose your shit with your kids. It gives very good tools to learn how to deal with tough situations, this one included. It’s helping me!