Labiaplasty

I’m seriously considering getting labiaplasty. It’s something I’m quite embarrassed to admit. I am a single mum to a 1.5 year old who would be nearer 2/2 and a half by the time I get it done. Has anyone had this done? What’s the recovery like? Am I going to have to admit to someone exactly what I’m having done. 🙈 It’s something I’ve always been extremely self conscious about. After becoming single about 5 months ago, I feel this would give me a massive boost in self confidence/ future relationships but extremely nervous.