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So today I was supposed to go out with my friends and my daughter got sick so I canceled to stay with her because I feel guilty and as a first time mom I’m still trying to figure it all out. However my husband still went out with his friends to take a break and recharge. This just upset me as a mother I don’t get to do the same or else I will feel shame and guilt but also I’m trying to stay positive and think as long as my daughter is healthy and well the rest will come back later. Idk I’m just very upset about how my life been
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You guys should take turns.. next time you go out and he stays home to help baby.
You feel guilty because you're not confident in your decision. You should still go see your friends. Hubby can help out.
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I know how you feel it's hard to leave them when little one is not well, I did the same alot of the time and OH carried on as normal and I used to resent him for it especially when I had to cancel my plans or prioritise little one over my social life but honestly when they get older you will get your life back and the time you spend with them will be a special memory.