Pregnancy after loss

Hii momma I had a loss at the begging of last year In February I was devastated and well in the endings of March I found out I was pregnant again and it was hard for me I was so emotional and my anxiety was getting the best of me I kept thinking what if I lose this one or if something happens I was always nervous to go to my ultrasound appointments but my bf always comforted me and told me everything is going to be okay and here we are a year later and my babygirl is healthy and growing she just turned one this month the 13th of December 🙏🏽🥹 all you can do is pray momma and I still think about my first one as well but us as mommas were never going to forget that and I hope your hubby understands what your going through and comforts you 🥹🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 I’m here if you ever want to talk

@Nitaa thank you, it definitely caused a little drift as he wanted to still be intimate and I didn’t, he didn’t really show me that it hurt him the way it was hurting me so I felt he didn’t care and I turned to friends and my mom a lot more. It definitely became a conversation because I exploded and just wanted some space to grieve a little but I feel like he still didn’t get me. And maybe he won’t because he’s not feeling all the things I did and still do but I know he’s trying in a way

I’m really sorry for your loss. Congratulations on your rainbow baby - it sounds like it’s been understandably tough and you are completely allowed to grieve. What you are going through sounds like a completely normal response. It does sound like everything happened quickly and you still need space to process your loss. I would definitely recommend speaking with someone. You can search for therapists that specifically have experience with pregnancy and loss. There are also typically many wonderful orgs that support families that have experienced a pregnancy loss. Not sure where you are located, but this would also be worth checking out. I imagine getting connected to a birth doula may also be helpful just to have someone that is aware of your history and can provide some extra support! Sending you love and hope as you navigate the rest of your pregnancy. You are doing the best you can and wrestling with a lot, on top of just being pregnant! You got this!