family members with my baby

i really don’t like when people give me advice or tell me what i should do with my baby, or what they think my baby wants or when they just come up and take him off me. and i can’t say no or give my own opinion because of how they will take it (personally) - family members and it just makes me feel bad.
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Your are setting a president that it’s ok to speak to you that way because you won’t do anything about it. I would try if you have a family GC, put a message in about what you are going to be like in 2025, include that you will ignore any unsolicited parental advice. You need to establish boundaries. If anyone makes an issue or take it personally explain it’s not personal but you have decided if anyone makes an issue then going LC maybe the next step.

Agree with the above, unfortunately you may have to ruffle a few family members feathers but ultimately you need to decide what is best for your baby and how you want to parent.

Can you love your family from a distance? Don't see them as often 😬

I don't even talk to my family about my pregnancy lol

This use to grind my gears and baby would cry and my husband would insist that they need to get use to them, 🫤 I started wearing baby in a carrier so they would be asleep or I'd be like I'm nursing then go do something else.

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