Unsure how to feel

My mom is no longer here. However I found out after she passed she has long written messages in all 3 of my siblings birthday cards (since youth onward) but just her “love mom” signature in mine. I wish I had her words to read back on but I don’t. It hurts and something I’m still processing. We were close. I was the closest to her and we spoke everyday. She preferred being around me but it still hurts.
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That would hurt me too & she felt they needed it more. You guys were close, she spoke to you about everything she needed to. She told you how loved you were. But I would also want those things to re-read, if I were you

It sounds like she maybe took your relationship for granted a little and it probably didn't occur to her how those messages would make you feel. She probat had to work a little harder with the other siblings. I'm sorry though, that must feel rubbish x

If you were the closest to her maybe she felt like you already knew everything she'd write? Whereas if she wasn't as close with your siblings maybe she felt she needed to write how she felt for them. Although I can understand why you're hurt, I'd try focus on the relationship and connection you had with her Vs what's written on a card.

Whilst I can see why you're hurt, I'd try to adopt the attitude that as you were so close she was able to tell you directly through words and actions.

If you had a good relationship maybe she said all she had to say to you and you'll forever carry that in your heart. Sorry for your loss.

Awwh at least you have that 🩷 You grieve however that looks to you 🩷 Personally I’m an angry/sad person so I’d be very rageful but sounds like u have memories you can always go back too 🩷 every words on a card fade 🩷 (obvi overtime lol)

@H love this x

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