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I’d say you’re both in the wrong, you’re entitled to show your emotions and shouldn’t be shamed for having them, but there’s no need to go against his mother who wasn’t involved in the situation, it’s out of his control what his mother does.
It wasn't right for him to say that. But you should have never offend his mom.. its everyone's choise how many kids they have. And also never go out of context when having a fight 🙌
I noticed men with disappointing mothers are extra knit picking to their partners.
Both of you are in the wrong. completely unnecessary comment from both of you. Absolutely nothing wrong with showing your emotions infront of your children (it’s actually beneficial) and he shouldn’t be nitpicking things but you had no reason to say anything rude about his mother. you are not any better of a mother than someone else just because you chose to have less kids than them. I think it’s also worse on your behalf that you calmed down, then still decided to say that to him. You weren’t upset or accidentally something slipped out in the moment, you took yourself away, calmed down and still decided that that was an okay thing to say. 🤦🏼♀️
What he said was very personal to you so you went personal back. Its not ‘right’ way to react but its natural to say something that you’d think would hurt him or get a rise out of him. He should never have said anything to you about how you are as mother to begin with hopefully he apologises to you because think what he said was worse and it was unprovoked (as far as we know)
Both of you are wrong, sounds like a toxic relationship honestly.
I understand you were hurt and maybe your opinion of his mom is not wrong, BUT why bring up his mom in the first place? Like what did she have to do with the situation? Do you and his mom not get along, like is she rude to you? Did he compare you to her and say she was better? Unless she's a jerk to you and he compared her to you, I think going after his mom was a low blow. Not saying what he said to you or how he made you feel was OK.