Advice for supporting a friend

I have a friend who's navigating a cancer diagnosis. They've not shared it widely with people so I'm privileged they've shared with me so I can support them, although they don't live near me. My challenge is that I don't feel like I'm doing enough. I'm supporting as best I can through messages and calls. But, I'm also struggling with my own emotions about their diagnosis and don't want to burden them. Any ideas for ways I can support them?

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Sorry to hear this. You may find some of the some of the information on this website helpful. https://www.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-information-and-support/supporting-someone/emotional-support-for-family-and-friends

When my mum was diagnosed, only immediate family and close friends knew. Some of her close friends put together a hamper of goodies to pamper herself between surgeries and radiotherapy treatments which cheered her up a lot.

I'm sorry you're going through this. Just ask them how you can support them. They'll tell you

Sending literal Comfy items, blankets, or even better, a wearable blanket hoodie or super soft n cozy robe

I've seen some very thoughtful chemo baskets. Magazines, puzzle books, novels, blanket, etc for when they have to sit

I’m sorry to hear this! A hamper as above sounds like a great idea! How about sending cards, personalised with photos of good times from moonpig or similar? Or a book? It is tough but just being there, listening and comforting is enough xx

Sorry to hear this. A thoughtful chemotherapy basket hamper is a good idea.

Any chance you can go visit for a few days to sit with them and keep them entertained whilst they’re having chemo?

I would offer support and would ask her directly are there any ways that I might be able to support her . One of my friends does this and I love that about her

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