I’m so tired of people thinking I’m getting over it/feeling better a few weeks past miscarriage.

I'm sorry your support system doesn't understand. This group does though. You're not alone and we all know the weight you're carrying💕

My heart is with you. 💔 I can say that going through two losses last year certainly did change me as well. I know this sounds not the best but I became very aware of how people did not give the emotional care, understanding, depth and love that I give very opening or simply lack that ability to. Neither one feels good. It hurts when you have to be the strong one and give that love and care to yourself, especially through this type of loss. Know that all that you are feeling is valid and real, and those here who have experienced this see and understand your heart, pain, and grief through and through. We are here for you. 🫶

Thank you ladies 💕. @Ashley oh I’m so sorry for your losses too. And anyone else reading this. This type of pain is just like no other. I’m not sure there’s anything more precious in this world to us, than what we’ve sadly lost. 😢 Yes exactly that Ashley, the emotional support is kind of there in the sense people sometimes check in, but it’s not on the level that actually makes us feel seen. It’s not like I want attention in the first place, but what I do get feels almost dismissive. I’ll definitely look after myself moving forward. I’m so thankful for everyone’s support in this group. ❤️

I can relate to this completely. I swear people think I’m over my miscarriages or “should” be over them.

As if things aren’t difficult enough for us. Message me privately!

Sorry I was rushing my messages earlier. I just find it so baffling how some people can’t seem to understand that we have lost a baby/babies - it’s not like we’ve just had a medical procedure or brief illness. Incognito - I think you write so beautifully about it. I feel like some of the things you have said are what I’ve been searching for to say. Xxxx