Feeling Unheard

Does anyone else see anything wrong with this or am I being extra?

He’s being very inconsiderate and a horn dog. He needs to chill and take you into consideration instead of thinking with just his dick. It’s obvious you don’t need sex right now he needs to deal and be there for you since you aren’t in the best mental state I’m assuming. But I can also see both sides I’m sure he does miss how it was before but that’s what it is shit changes life changes people change. He needs to cope with that and be there for you. It’s not all about sex and that seems to be all he’s missing. This doesn’t need to be a text conversation I would sit down with him and have an eye contact conversation. In my opinion and this is how I am too if my needs aren’t met everywhere else then sex is the last thing on my mind. It’s okay to feel that way. You aren’t an issue or a burden with it.

Why do men think being over sexual is a turn on for us?!

@Samantha I never understand it either I had to tell my fiancé to initiate sex being like THAT turns me off lol

@🩷 Patience 🩷 right! My husband will grope me constantly and I tell him to touch me but in a loving way not a sexual way... Now he doesn't touch me at all. It doesn't have to be one or the other!

@Samantha I honestly think social media has ruined the lines of what turns us on. They think groping is suppose to be an immediate turn on but being kissed and hugged even a massage something not so sexual but still intimate is such a big turn on! Grabbing my boob or ass makes me want to punch you in the nose 😂

At least tell me you love me and make me dinner. Damn he’s a horn ball. Tell him Jill is always right next to him and he can de stress himself that way. You’re not a sex doll. You want to make love. Not be brutally fucked 😅

@🩷 Patience 🩷 exactly! 😂 Op you're definitely not being extra! You deserve respect!!! I agree with Victoria you're not a sex doll!

@Abby yup they just over complicate this!

Maybe try explaining to him that you need the affirmative love and sex is just not what makes you feel loved. Also let him know you are still dealing with PPD and it’s very hard on you mentally. I’m also struggling with PPD and I had to fully explain it to my husband also.

He needs to calm tf down. Like it seems like he isn’t even reading what you’re saying he just keeps talking about himself

He just made me rage wtf is his damn problem??? Hell nah girl if you’re being pressured into sex that’s literally sexual harassment he can’t be forcing you to do shit he doesn’t own your body a man like that won’t change. If a baby didn’t change him and make him realize wtf women go through he’s never going to. I’m speaking by experience the longer you take it the worst it’s gonna get. Someone that loves you will always make sure your needs are met. There’s no reason why you should be pressured into anything

This is manipulative jesus Christ. Demanding his needs be met? What a cringe asshole. You and your baby deserve a better role model than this.

Respectfully, this guy sounds like such a fucking loser I can’t believe you’re being so patient with this shit. Is he 17 years old? #horny4ubabygirl?!?!?! 🤢 He wants to play Xbox and “tittie fuck” in the bathroom while you have other people in the house? Jesus Christ. You have every right to be appalled. You should be MORE appalled.

Eurgh, he's a sex pest! My fiance would never talk to me like this, not in a million years!

Ugh “you need to de-stress me” This drives me insane. A man’s sexual needs and stress management are NOT the responsibility of ANY woman. You don’t need to do shit. He needs to go fuck off, quite literally.