First pregnancy miscarriage

I'm so sorry for your loss. The fist one was really hard because I also didn't know anything other than loss. I hope you have a supportive husband and doctor and be gentle with yourself if you need time 💕

I also mc at 8 weeks end of Oct 2024. It was also my first pregnancy. My advice to you is the emotions your experiencing will pass and once you get a clear mind again you will need to figure out if you want to try again and when you think is right for you. For myself and my partner we argued on and off for the week after as I had so much sadness and anger as I didn’t expect it to happen like that with my first. But within the same week we decided to keep the spark of our relationship going by getting intimate again. I stopped bleeding 3 days after I mc but I know it can take longer. At the end of Nov so exactly 4 weeks after I mc I actually found out I was pregnant again and I’m currently 10 weeks now but in the back of my mind I’m so nervous incase this baby doesn’t make it even tho I’m further on x

What I’m trying to explain is. It’s easy to get pregnant again. You got pregnant with this baby so you can definitely carry it but something just went wrong with the cells as did mine first time. First pregnancy miscarriage is a lot more common nowadays. You’ll be okay in a few weeks time I promise. Once time passes a little and your partner also has some time. Just make sure to try calm yourself down if your feeling overwhelmed xx