Due in 4 weeks... Not ready to be separated from her
This baby is being adopted due to financial reasons and I cannot afford to keep her. I already have 3 kids and I know the best choice for my family financially would be to not add another one. I was not mentally able to go through with an abortion so I found an amazing couple to adopt instead.
They have been there for everything and gone to every appointment. The adoption mother and I have become good friends as well. I know this is the best for the baby but I can't shake the feeling that I failed her because her mom is not going to be me. The feelings and emotions of not keeping her are crushing me.
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@Jordan no honestly I cannot financially support another kid. If i did then I would cause the rest of my kids to suffer..bills are too high as is and I'm already on a tight budget for their food. I make too much to qualify for anything but not enough to pay for everything.
Ok I understand. I’m sorry to hear of your situation. It sounds like you’re doing the best you can.
@Jordan thank you. Just needed to vent this out somewhere. There's not many people I can go to to talk about it.
You are in no way failing her as a mother ! As mums we are meant to always do what is best and save them from any suffering no matter how hard it is. This is so strong and selfless of you ! Please don’t beat yourself up!
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Are you able to change your mind and keep her??