Baby registry items

I feel this way a bit. Especially when there’s people with children who think they know what you’ll need better than you

i feel this way too but like i don’t want to sound ungrateful…like there is already so much i need and all of the extra crap that i didnt ask for is just gonna take up space that we don’t have😭 ik they’re just excited and want to get cute stuff but it rlly annoys me

To be honest, those who aren’t tech savvy didn’t get me anything from the registry but they mostly purchased from Target and Target had lot of the same things as my Amazon registry. It’s a hassle but at least they made an effort. You just have to research a bit more. Good luck momma! 🫶🏼

My only advice would be if anyone is a bit older tell them directly what you want like a box of diapers size 2 and for the rest i would say send link and add something with different price points as well. I gave my registry to some coworkers and they all bought the cheapest items on the list and when those items were bought other people didnt buy anything lol just add little things as well

@Georgia Same! And lots of times this happens and I definitely appreciate anything anyone wants to get for the baby. Even if it’s something I won’t like or use.

@Crystal Dont you hate that? Like I get ppl may have had a kid or 2, but don’t think we as parents don’t have a clue what OUR baby needs! I’ve also experienced people commenting about the registry saying “are you really gonna use that” or “that’s expensive” or “I get it because it’s your first, but you won’t be like that for the others” like please don’t tell me how I’m gonna be with my kids. If I wanna splurge on this baby and the future kids to come (Lord willing) then that’s what I’m gonna do!!

@Alexis right it be so frustrating. I try not to be rude but don’t tell me what my child needs because then I’ll start doing it with you. Like this is not my first pregnancy but since I’m young apparently I’m not doing anything right

I definitely felt this way. The only things I really didn’t care about not being straight off the registry were clothing items and toys. It’s hard not to sound ungrateful but the registry is more of mothers asking their village for assistance than suggestions that can be ignored.

YES. I feel this but unfortunately people do what they want. I always feel like if they truly wanted to help you why wouldn’t they get you what you’re asking for?

@Abbi Absolutely, I totally agree! This may be my first and last baby shower just because of all the unnecessary things that come with having one

Yeeeeeah, I feel this. Of course I’m grateful for ANYTHING someone gifts, and I would never outwardly express any negativity towards those people! But there’s always that random aunt that buys rattles and random baby soap and it’s like… Just save your money hahah. When in doubt, tell them to get diapers. Especially for a second child - I do noooooooottttttt need clothes or socks. Those are the LAST things my son needs. 😩

im currently feeling the same way my babyshower is like a week away and only 1 person has bought off my registry 🥲 and this may be my second child however im having a girl my first is a boy so its not like im able to use everything from the first. plus i specifically stated no clothes and atp i know its just gonna be everyone showing up with clothes i didn’t ask for. i just don’t trust everyone’s fashion sense and both my bf and i rather buy her wardrobe ourselves. and people do not be giving gift receipts!!! does anyone else hate that?? like at least give the option of exchanging it

@Jin I feel you! I feel like it’s common for ppl to buy off the registry but not mark that it’s been purchased. This is a problem because then you may have doubles. Hopefully you get a good gift turnout for baby girl!!

Not offended just annoyed haha