I'm right there with you. I like the cuddles and it's cute sometimes but like damn I can't get shit done or even feed myself I have bad back and neck problems and carrifiers hurt me bad. So either way I'm getting hurt.
They have clingy phases. I did hear once, children need father's because mothers comfort and hold while fathers give children ability to detach and adventure. Maybe it's just in most our nature 😂. My husband said he could handle being the stay at home parent. Was off work a week while I was dead sick and he lasted 2 days before he exploded
My son was very much a Velcro baby until he got a hang of crawling. I have 3 different baby carriers and a tushbaby. I recommend you find what ones work for you so you’re hands free and able to function while he gets his mama fix. Enjoy the cuddles while you can.