And also,(I know what I'm about to say is Cliché) but it won't always be this way! Your only 25 ,you've got so many more years ahead of you ☺️. One day you will be able to go back to do your level 3,and finish it 🤩. And many more things you decide you want to do, in the future 🙂 x
Take it from a 39 year old, time spent at home with your babies will NEVER be wasted. I got my degree and worked whilst having two children and I regret it to this day. I now have a 2 year old boy and left work to spend time with him because I know how precious that time is. You are only 25, you have years ahead of you. Make yourself a plan of what you'd like to do so at least it feels real for you. You can then do those things when you are emotionally ready. Motherhood is an incredible journey. Enjoy it!
It’s never too late to start what you want to do I believe in you ! So do your babies !!
I'm at the opposite end so I had my first at 32 and second at 35. We are financially stable, educated, married and all that jazz so it does make some stuff easier... but, as you had your kids young you will be done with the active parts of parenting much sooner than we will!! I'm tired 😆 We live to be 80+ nowadays you've got plenty of life in you yet. Do what you can now of course, but don't write off the decades of time you have ahead of you to focus on your goals! If you want to go back to school, learn a skill, start a business or whatever... you have time. You can do anything you set your mind to! There are pros and cons to having kids younger or older. Just try and embrace the advantages of having them sooner if you can ❤️
That's how I feel too! I'm also 25 and I feel like I'm super behind. But we have to remind ourselves that we got a whole life ahead of us and everyone's timeline completely different. Plus kids give you even more motivation to push through !
I feel this too much,sending hugs 🫂.