No judgement and don’t judge others

I don’t shower with my daughter anymore simply because it doesn’t seem convenient to me in regards to after shower care but she sees me naked all the time cause I’m breastfeeding her little sister and it can get rough in this house 😂 she is 3 and some change, has known her body parts since 18 months. But we do talk about needing privacy and what’s ok with other people.

I started showering with my daughter when she was 13m old because I was a SAHM and it was easier to shower when she was with me then trying to find a way to shower without supervision. We stopped when she was a few years older, don't remember when exactly but it was when she started having more questions.

I'm a boy mom and i always showered with my son. I got a lot of shame from people but you do what feel right and comfortable for you. I did the same to make it easier for rushed mornings and convince. My son is 5 tomorrow, I stopped letting him shower with me when he was 4ish. Not because he was noticing my body or anything weird. I dont want him to feel shame about his body or being naked but I did feel like I wanted my own space and privacy so that day doesn't come where its weird. I just decided that he needs to create his own habits now and so I tell him he can't come in anymore with me but he can have all the water to himself on his own as soon as I'm finished. I want him to still keep the routine. Just tell the little one that they are such a big boy or girl and there is only room for 1 person at a time. Turn it into a compliment to them and a moment to be proud. Get them all the fun foaming soaps and there own body scrubber and make it fun for them.

My son was sad for a day and now he could care less and I get to fully shower with room and peace lol

Hey mama… I’m a mom of four girls and I’ve showered with all 4 of them before. My oldest are 16&12 turning 13 this year(I don’t bathe/shower with them anymore)I believe they were 3 and 4 when I stopped putting them in with me and they started to bathe without me…& My youngest 2 of the 4 girls are 2 years the other is 7months. With that being said , I still at times shower with my youngest 2 because it’s most convenient for me at times as well. I have my older daughters come in and get them after I clean them up first and then I get to enjoy my shower with what hot water is left and sometimes I don’t get that but 😂 (joys of motherhood right) but I just want them to start to get the sense of privacy at that 3 or 4 age o think that’s a good age.

My daughter is 4 and 11 months old currently, and I honestly stopped when she wanted to stop, once she started developing a sense of autonomy, she decided herself that she wanted to start showering alone. Prior I would always ask her if she wanted to shower with me, and up until about a year ago she would say yes.