Shared clothes dilemma
My brother and sister in law use laundry detergents that are SO strong and perfumed and since we share clothes for our 2 year old daughters and infant sons it's an issue when we're dealing with eczema in our household. They buy the girl clothes and we buy the boy clothes to keep it fair. I'm not sure if this will continue to work if those laundry booster perfumes won't wash out even with multiple washes, rinses, vinegar, baking soda and unscented detergent.
Should we tell them we'll have to stop sharing or should we ask them to refrain from using strong perfumes or is that rude?
Maybe explain to them politely that your kids have eczema and the washing stuff they're using makes it flare up Then continue to explain for the arrangement of clothes to work you'll need to agree on a certain washing detergent that you can oth use