Are we all still having sexy time?

Sorry if TMI but wondering how everyone’s sex life is currently coping? Im 35W and luckily throughout this pregnancy I haven’t lost my drive at all and we’ve still made time for each other at least once a week. I’m still totally down for it however I sense the vibe is changing from my partner slightly and he doesn’t seem as interested lately. Hoping it’s all in my head because I’m defo starting to feel bigger now so maybe a lil insecurity is peaking its head but one thing that terrifies me is this affecting our sex life 😩 how’s everyone else getting on?
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I haven't had sex for ages mainly because I'm tired and don't have the energy but to start with it was because my husband was worried (at the start of my pregnancy I had lots of spotting) so he didn't want to do anything even though iv told him that's not the cause . If it was me and I was feeling insecure I would tell my husband just talk to him about it xx

Also my husband works full time and is literally doing everything for me at the moment as I'm just so exhausted after work my self (34 weeks pregnant) so he's showing his love by looking after me it's been lovely seeing that

Honestly speak to your partner about it, my partner thought that it would send me into labour since 28 weeks so he completely stopped for weeks. I’ve said it’s totally fine since speaking to him as it was totally making me feel like crap and now we are back to normal, we are 35 weeks today and hopefully it’s not going to induce labour but we are still having sex once a week or twice xx

I lose my drive completely when I’m pregnant, i’m like ew get away from me 😭😂I’m soo exhausted to even think of that anyway

Not since I was like 16 weeks 🫣🥲 i have zero interest, I feel like I’ve completely closed up down there , it feels heavy and swollen and I don’t want anyone or anything near me 😅 I have no idea how I’m going to push a baby out of it!!!!

We’re still doing it (35 weeks pregnant) but it’s getting really uncomfortable for me now because belly is very big… I still want to do it, but yeah.. can’t find a position that it’s not uncomfortable, so we keep saying that we’ll save ourselves for after birth. He also moans sometimes that he misses the good old times and it annoys me cuz I tell him that because of the “good old times” I ended up pregnant 😆

@Sammy aw this is lovely that he’s looking after you and showing you plenty of affection in other ways 💙

@Becki thank you! yeah maybe I just need to check he’s not scared or something hahah the last few times he has been very careful bless him xx

I lost my drive during the first few weeks cos I was scared of something happening but I’m 34 weeks now with twins and we have sex almost every night we are just so obsessed with eachother, we’ve had to work out new positions which are more comfortable for me (doggy, edge of the bed etc) but I would definitely speak to your partner about it lovely xx

33 weeks and still having it but maybe a bit less frequently (could also be that we are now staying at my parents house lol!) yesterday I was worried it would kickstart labour though so perhaps he’s worried about that, talk to him 🤗

Is it weird that I have a sex drive but have no energy to do anything about it 😂😂 I want sex but the effort to do it now would drain me 😂

My husband is weirded out by there’s being a literal person in my belly so no 🤣

@Jo I think my husband is Abit lol

I’d love to be able to but I just get so uncomfortable now that it kinds of takes the sexiness out of it 🙈 I think my husband probs feels the same as he deffo doesn’t seem as keen!! Everything went back to normal after 6 weeks when my first was born so hoping it’s going to be the same this time around x

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