Valentine’s Day

Knowing me, yes. I’m the same way like you are. I be gifting my husband things here and there but I never get anything in return… I would through in comments or send him things regarding about him asking me to be his Valentine’s . He just assumes because we’re married 😭 He did finally ask me yesterday/last night 🙄🤣

Please stop asking. He should know better by now. I wouldn’t give him shit.

Omg No card is wild. I believe we teach people how to love us Please don’t accept this I’m so sorry You deserve to be celebrated

I would be petty and buy him like 15-20 cards to drive in the point that you just want 1.

@Sarah i agree 🤣😂😛😁

Gift yourself what you would your husband! Get yourself glammed up and open your card)gift Infront of him

Send a card to yourself or get something delivered to yourself and write on it some lovey dovey words to yourself but from “you know who 😉”. That’ll perk him right up. Then after he has his tantrum thinking it’s from another guy tell him your gf sent it, because you told her he never does 💁🏻‍♀️ tell her that also so when he asks her himself or demands you to confirm it’s from her, she says yes. 😂💁🏻‍♀️

I wouldn’t ask. I never asked.I Told My friends to buy me gifts and I wouldn’t shut up for weeks about it. He then did it the following year and showed the same appreciation I now never have to ask. This year I got a fake flower bouquet, camo chocolates, 2 balloons, and a huge card Try it. And if he still don’t get it well then I guess it’s up for you to decide

I’m soo glad I mentioned Valentine’s Day coming up to my hubs bc his reaction definitely let me know that it wasn’t anywhere on his radar lol! I would’ve been super disappointed if I didn’t at least get a dang candy bar or somethingggg, so I’m glad I mentioned it! I think boys are just oblivious & need to be told directly what to do fr. Granted though, I don’t do crap for him in valentines lol

I don't expect anything from my partner. I still get him things. It breaks my heart that he doesn't seem to care.

I do think Valentine’s is an appreciation exchange, so yes, gift him something (several days prior as an early warning). I think you should show the emotion and hurt with quiet tears and sadness. Don’t pretend nothing is ok.

“Hey baby, I would love if this year we could be more affectionate. It doesn’t have to be anything big but lets pick a little something to surprise each other this Valentine’s day? It can be something that you want to do together, a hand written card, anything really. Love you and I will be thinking about you today ❤️”