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What's your definition of baby mum/mom cause technically we all baby mamas

@Taylor you know what I mean Society definition of a baby mum is a girl that had a child without getting married and since I’m from ethic background too they call my child names like “bastard” . How do I defend my self from that and not let the negative comments effect me

Ppl are gonna judge you regardless. When you made your baby without being married you knew kinda what you were signing up for and you weren’t thinking about what other ppl might think of you so I don’t think you should be concerned about what they think now. As long as you’re a good mom and a good person to hell with everything else really.

@Acacia🦋 he was planning the wedding and last minute he disappeared on me . But you’re right I’m going to put that energy into being a good mum

Im sorry that happened to you ! But yea all you can do is focus on being the best mom to your baby and being your best self. 🫶🏾 as long as you and baby are happy and healthy and have everything y’all need don’t worry about anyone else’s stupid comments.

I was feeling this way a month into my separation. I feared being a single mom and got married to a guy who wasn't even a good boyfriend. You can change your perspective and you can change your reality. It takes time. Music helps me not spiral sometimes. Darling by beautiful chorus. Is a beautiful uplifting song. I am really sorry you are going through all of this. Your feelings are valid and you are not alone💞

*affect not effect