Manipulation is getting old…..

Me: Have you gone over my birth plan Bf: *On his phone doing NOTHING important* A lil bit Me: I’m close to having this baby, I need you to be able to advocate for me. What you gone say if they ask about chord clamping? Bf: *Stays silent for 8 mins and continues scrolling on phone* Me: *im irritated atp so I’m rubbing the bridge of my nose trying not to stress* Bf: *tries to grab my hand and keep me from rubbing my nose* Me: Move why is you being forceful for no reason?? Bf: Oh bet you don’t want me touching you. Me: you just manipulate—— Bf: *Starts rapping and singing so he can’t hear me, turns around, puts the blanket over his head, and gts* I’m so tired of bs like this y’all. I can’t wait to leave this man I’ve given him so many chances and so many opportunities to change and be better and he never takes them seriously. Yet he thinks nothing is wrong with him. How tf am I supposed to have another baby with this person??? I’m just exhausted I’ve been doing everything for the baby by myself. I’ve been planning on leaving him since before I got pregnant but just don’t have the money. Idk what to do anymore. I’m 38 weeks on Thursday and this baby is 8lbs he’s just taking his time to come out. Pls any advice?

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Leave and go somewhere you can stay no one should go through that

I think he is terrified!

Sounds a bit childish 😒 can you have a proper chat with him, no phones etc and try get his full attention and go through the birth plan together? One thing pregnancy has taught me is how different men and women are. We have to spell shit out for them!

Sounds super childish to me. He needs to wake up and realise what's about to happen. Would he respond more to videos about birth plans or something so you can discuss it together rather than reading something?

Good lord how old is this guy? Starts rapping when your trying to have a convo with him about your baby arriving soon.. 🙄🤦‍♀️ sounds like a boy, not a grown man. Nobody has time for that type of crap he's pulling.

I mean, do men ever really give a shit about birth plans? I never made one, so certainly didn't expect my fiance to care about it. As she was my 3rd he basically left it to me and said he would do whatever I wanted him to do 🙂

my husband forgot everything and still does

@Josephine not rlly. Every time I try to have a serious convo with him he act like he don’t wanna talk but if it’s about money or food or sex then he’s all ears

@Jen 29 almost 30

@Rebecca in a situation like mine where one is necessary, yes he should care. It’s called supporting you thru the birthing experience

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