Feeling unwanted

My partner hasn't had sex with me since we conceived back in Sept. The first 12 weeks I understand as we'd had a previous miscarriage and neither of us were really concerned However, it's been ages now and we even got engaged in December and still didn't have sex, we've not been intimate at all and it's really getting to me. I feel unwanted, detached from him and just really sad every day it feels worse! What would ya'll do?

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Have you brought this up to him? He may possibly have some fears from losing the last baby.

Communication is best it’s always scary because you’re not sure what they’ll say, but if they are scared because it could lead to a miscarriage at least you’ll know it’s a valid reason

Mine is the same way although me and him are kinda feeling the same way. For him he feels uncomfortable because we literally know how our baby’s face looks and she’s just so close in there and truthfully it’s a turnoff and is just awkward. It’s frustrating a bit for me though because the horomones make me really you know what but to actually do the act we can’t help but focus on the fact she’s right there 😕😕

I know my husband is scared of being too rough with me and having it hurt me or the baby. I told him if it’s uncomfortable I will tell him. Some of our positions have had to change but as long as I’m being open and communicate with him it’s been okay. I’m sure he’s afraid of hurting you and the baby so worth the conversation

Mine is the same way, it makes him uncomfortable.

Communication. If he holds things back, make sure he truly expresses why

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