How do you deal with argumentative partners?
They can argue for England! Even when you are done they will keep going . They like debates. They can literally go on for hours and hours into the night.
When I first got with him I thought he was smart and had good conversation. Now I just feel he is uncontrollable with it. I check out of conversations/arguments because I ran out of energy.
I cannot do this to old age!!!! I don’t want to look old beyond my years😩😭
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@Ashley it’s draining! There is never a conclusion with him. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Just end the conversation. "I don't have time or energy to keep discussing this." If he keeps talking, ignore it. Get busy doing something else.
Have you tried couples therapy
My husband is the same way. Once he gets going he doesn't shut down. I don't have a solution 😭
@Ashley no. Do you think it would help?
Yes absolutely! But only if he’s receptive
I recently saw a video where a guy was talking about having arguments/fights with his wife and they "force the issue by say... tell me in one sentence. https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1FBJyEXgjP/?mibextid=D5vuiz
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I had an ex like this and eventually I just up and left because he was choosing to argue in front of our child. I plead and said I’m not going to argue about this anymore or I would ask for us to revisit the conversation after we’ve both slept on it. He never got the memo but hopefully you’re partner will