I’m stupid
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Try to collect evidence of his threats in case he takes you to court. Try to get a restraining order to keep you and your son safe. Sounds dangerous to me.
I agree document everything, keep text messages, restraining order & honestly I would see about protective custody because he sounds violent
Yes girl your not stupid your just a women who wants a functional happy family. Document everything be smarter this time around
Only u know your baby daddy, how long has it been since he’s been out of your son’s life before coming back? Has he paid child support? Why are u scared? Does he have money and u feel he’s going to get a better lawyer and take son away? Or is he he broke and he’s the type to run his mouth and has nothing to back it up ?
Cut him off again
@Janae 4 months he pop up at the top of the year.
@Elizabeth record his threats stop talking to him let him bust the windows out and get a report on it and he will not be able to get any type of custody over your son. Let him dig his own grave if u know what I mean and file child support if he works . Unless u don’t want his money to help u with your child
Don’t even argue with him. Go silent . I’ve done this before it works!
Oh and after u get a report for him busting out your windows go get a protective order against him . U can also get out your lease immediately for dv. But u must have paperwork to show u really going thru it good luck!
I advise u to have some sort of protection when he busts the windows out and stay on phone with 911 operator so they too can hear him. Until officers arrive
Lord
As someone has already said the best thing to do is keep messages that he’s sending you and any communication with you too, then get a restraining order against you and if you feel your kid is in danger, keep him away too!
@Janae well I work were I live so I’m worried I might lose my job
@Stephanie Louis-Juste why u say lord
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@Elizabeth sweetie you won’t lose your job over this! && if they try anything LAWSUIT ! Please don’t be afraid to take these steps in protecting you && your son
Record him for evidence if he does do that. Easier to get custody when you have proof he’s a danger to you
@Elizabeth been there last year. Now I'm single. Same situation he broke my 50 inch TV and my cellphone so I couldn't call for help. I let him dig his grave he ended up in jail. I got custody and three civil protection orders. Called police on him when he least expected it cause I knew he was going try put his hands on me during argument which he did. There are definitely ways around that gurl. Don't let him try to scare you even if he is crazy. Mine is def crazy but I learned how to fight him by letting him dig his own grave.
Save evidence get a TRO move out. You did it once, and can do it again.
Get a restraining order against him and file for full custody