TMI sexual relations advise

Sorry in advance for the long post. My partner and I are having issues when it comes to intimacy during that time of the month. He’s not the type that likes to do anything with me while I’m on my period, but thinks he should receive head at least twice while I’m on my period. When I’m off my period, he doesn’t want to have sex like we usually do if I don’t satisfy him while I’m on my period. I don’t think it’s fair that he gets to be pleased twice while im on my period and I don’t get touched at all and then he turns around and basically makes me beg him to have sex when I’m off my period. Ladies please drop any advice you have. I want both of us to be happy with a compromise but I don’t know what that is.

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Stop giving him head. Until he grows up.

Sweetie this isn’t normal..I get some men get grossed out by period lols but him demanding head is so crazy because what?? I would definitely not recommend staying with him since it can impact yoy more than you think I’m so sorry you’re going thru this you can always talk to me

I'd cut off all intimacy once I'm on my period and if he can't accept that and has you begging for sex when your off your period cut him off because your not obligated to give him anything if you don’t want to and you damn sure shouldn’t beg him for anything he sounds like an asshole

Can’t you have sex with him on your period? It helps with cramping. It’s honestly a win win.

That definitely is not normal at all whatsoever. I would definitely cut off intimacy as well. That's just wild if a man doesn't a woman's body and how bad sometimes period. Cramps can be then he needs to go read a book and get educated and grow up. How old is he yet by the way?

have you expressed how you feel? i find that if we as women dont express ourselves upfront and allow certain things it becomes hard to change our partner’s behavior and sometimes they become irate and defensive when we start to express how we feel. i hope you and your partner can work through this

Sounds like a job.

That's abusive. He's withholding as punishment??

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