Need advice

Boyfriend left me and our son in a different city a week after giving birth after an argument. We had to find a way home because I can’t drive due to having a C-section. Now I haven’t heard from him in almost three days. Our baby is only a week old and I’m still recovering. I’m a first time mom and I’m really struggling. I love him but it’s hurtful that he just left us and didn’t check up to see if we are okay. Need advice?
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I don't usually comment on these types of posts, but I think you already know what to do. This just shows a complete disregard for yours and your baby's health and safety. In all honesty, it's disgusting. The fact that he hasn't reached out shows that he isn't sorry or that he doesn't feel he's made a mistake. You need to stay strong and try to think of this as a blessing that you and your baby do not need to put up with his crap for the rest of your life, if he can do this now what else could he do. That aside, would you ever actually be able to forgive him for doing this to you when you were probably at your most vulnerable?

It’s time to leave honey..he is showing you where you stand on importance in his life.

You can love someone and they just not be the right person for you. Things like priorities make that as a make or break.

I’m so sorry this happened at a time that you should’ve been prioritised and looked after. I think, unfortunately, it says a lot that not only he behaved this way but did so at your most vulnerable. I wouldn’t even treat my enemy like this, let alone my own child. Prioritise yourself and your child.

I normally try and find some way of looking at these posts and play devils advocate but in this case I just can't. If he loved you he wouldn't do that to you. It sounds like he is young and immature or just selfish but in honesty if this is within the first week he will struggle in the next few months when **** gets real x

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